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Chapter 624 Yu Qian's Refutation of Guo Degang's Education

"Uncle, something bad has happened. Guo Fenyang ran away."

Saturday afternoon at three o'clock.

Yu Qian was watching He He doing homework at his apprentice's home. He He was always very busy doing homework and was so talkative that she could talk about anything.

He has trouble concentrating and needs someone to watch him.

But still love her.

But at this moment, he suddenly received a call from his mistress and was told what had just happened.

"How did it happen?"

"Hey, you don't know. Recently, Master has become ruthless for some reason and stopped pampering Andi. He started to treat Andi like he treats Dalin, so he broke down because of the child."

"Oops~"

Yu Qian actually knew more about it, but he didn't expect that retribution would come as expected.

Do you still want to use Dalin’s education to replicate Dalin?

Is he asleep and not awake yet?

Dalin’s success has something to do with himself, what does it have to do with his education?

"Okay, I understand. I'll come and take a look."

Yu Qian was nominally the master, so since something had happened he couldn't just sit there and do nothing, so he had to step up.

"He He, do your homework and don't play around."

"Ah."

Yu Qian went out and saw Dalin there. He greeted him and asked, "Can I go to the rose garden?"

"What? Something happened?"

Guo Qilin, his wife and sister are watching TV. Tomorrow is his Lantern Festival and he will be performing a show soon.

"Something happened. The father and son had a quarrel, and Andi ran away. He is currently being taken care of by your senior brothers."

"what?"

Not only Guo Qilin was surprised, Deng Ziqi and Deng Yiling were all stunned.

It's unprecedented.

If the master hadn’t said it, no one would believe it.

You have to know that Guo Degang dotes on Guo Fenyang so much.

Yu Qian put on his coat. "Recently, he seems to have realized the reality and has given his youngest son some education, specifically in the way he used to educate him. For a while, the child couldn't handle it."

"Please be careful on the road. I won't accompany you." Guo Qilin said.

Yu Qian was extremely speechless at the moment. He nodded and left, driving straight to the rose garden to see what the situation was.

After half an hour.

When he arrived, he found that the environment was a little quieter than before, with a lot of apprentices and assistants.

Now, apart from Guo Degang, there are only two or three assistants helping to clean the house.

Apparently some teapot or something had been broken, leaving a large puddle of water.

"Degang? What's wrong?"

"Brother, you're here? Hey, I've been doing this all my life."

It took some time for Guo Degang to explain it in detail, and Yu Qian finally understood it.

"Your education is simply not something that ordinary children can endure. Dalin is the only one who has not been driven crazy by you. If it were you, everyone else would have been driven crazy."

The other party just wanted to answer this sentence.

Suddenly, Wang Hui's angry voice came from the door, and she came in in three steps.

"That's right, Senior Brother is right. Do you really want your son to die? I asked you to educate him, but you just treat him like a non-human being, right? Dalin can tolerate it because he only has you as his father. He can only accommodate you, trust you, and tolerate you.

And yet you still think you have done a good job in education?

Are you crazy? If I hadn't heard what the children said, I wouldn't have known that you were educating them like this recently, destroying their self-esteem, so that when they grow up, they won't even want you."

I'm going crazy.

Wang Hui scolded her senior brother directly regardless of whether he was there or not.

Yes, she let him educate her, but it was just normal education. If he made a mistake, she would let him know how to correct it, and then teach him some manners. If he didn't listen, she could punish him corporally. She didn't care.

As a result, how could she agree to what Guo Qilin had taught her over the past few days? Although she was his stepmother, she knew what Guo Qilin had suffered at that time.

It's simply inhuman mental torture.

Seeing that the couple was about to quarrel, Yu Qian couldn't just ignore it and offered some words of comfort.

"Calm down, sister-in-law. Degang just wants the best for the child."

"He wants the best for the child. The child is going to have a mental breakdown. How can he treat him like this? If he continues like this, not only will Dalin run away from home, but even my mother and I will leave too. He would never teach us like this."

Women are always more talkative than men when they are angry. Moreover, this time it was Guo Degang who was unreasonable, so she could only endure it silently and reflect on herself.

Reflect on your own teaching methods.

Through the comparison between Dalin and Guo Fenyang, we can clearly understand that his education could never succeed. It was Dalin's personal efforts and character that made it successful.

"Where is Andi now?" Yu Qian asked again.

"I've been taken by Xiao San and her friends to buy food. I'll see what you can do about this matter."

After saying this, Wang Hui didn't wait long to go find her son.

As soon as she left, the atmosphere at home became much quieter.

But Guo Degang was extremely ashamed to let his senior see such an embarrassing scene.

But rather than feeling embarrassed, I had something more to ask.

"Brother, I have experience in educating apprentices. I have educated so many children. But when it comes to my own children, the success I always thought of was just an illusion given to me by Dalin."

One sentence explains the reason.

Yu Qian nodded. It was rare for him to tell the truth, but there was something wrong with the first half of his sentence.

Because when it comes to educating his apprentices, he is not the only one who teaches them. His fellow apprentices who once traveled to Beijing to lead the army also put in a certain amount of effort.

If it weren't for Cao Yunjing's personal guidance, they would have no way to lead when they were busy, especially the later He class.

He basically does not participate in teaching.

“You just went a little too far. Not all children can handle your education. Even if they can, you have given them an extremely dark childhood.

How many years does a person live? A childhood takes up twelve years, which is one sixth of a person's life. You make one sixth of a person's life like being in prison.

Even if he grows up and thrives, he will still hate this time because it is mental abuse."

After saying this, Yu Qian simply took a sip of tea. He planned to persuade Guo Degang today. If he couldn't persuade him, then forget it, but he had to persuade him anyway.

Guo Degang lowered his head and listened slowly.

"Children are not machines. You can't control them as you want. Did we also go through this when we were little? No, right? As for going out into society and having to endure hardships and run into trouble, no matter how well-mannered and proficient you are, there will always be people who can't stand you.

When something happens to the child or he gets into trouble, the parents will be the pillars behind the child, helping him solve the problems and grow together with him.

Instead of letting the child go to jail for twelve years first.

You say society wants to beat you, so you beat it up for society first, and then call it a pretext for you to adapt. You will be beaten up in the future, so get used to it first. Life is not science, it is not so rational.

Some things must be experienced personally in order to grow.”

Guo Degang didn't say anything, but listened hard and then made some analysis.

Yu Qian continued, "Just like the old man you mentioned, he has never experienced any storms at the age of 60. He is still a child. A child who has experienced storms since childhood will be more mature and experienced. But this experience is not gained by parents being beaten. Can being beaten or threatened help one to deal with social problems perfectly?

In this case, then you have to prepare for everything first. After you get beaten, you can guard against backstabs from your peers? Other traps, other insults?

No, these things all come, and then we deal with them one by one and then solve them.

I have never heard that you can prevent these things by just giving them frustration education. That is ridiculous. The two have nothing to do with each other. We were all very upset when we encountered these things. So you let your children receive frustration education and they will be able to deal with it? Without offending anyone? It is a fantasy.

It is better to let the children learn from adults. They will know what to do without being beaten or scolded.

At this point Yu Qian took a breath and said, "Take He He for example."

Hearing the name He He, Guo Degang became even more interested.

“He He was very timid when she was young.

I get scared and hide when I see anyone coming.

Especially when I was two years old, I was very scared.

As a result, she has been showing up with Dalin since she was a child, and going to concerts with her mother from time to time. As the number of times has increased, she has become bolder, and she has also been meeting and talking with her father.

I understand that I should learn from my father and be polite like him.

There’s no frustration education here.”

"Yeah, yeah! I ignored everything!"

……

The conversation continued for a full half hour. Yu Qian had nothing more to say and planned to leave.

He came here simply to take a look at the situation. Since Wang Hui was already taking care of Andi and he had expressed a lot of things he wanted to say, there was no reason for him to stay. What followed was his own thinking.

"I am leaving."

Guo Degang stood up to see his senior brother off.

After sending it back, he continued to think.

After thinking about it, I realized that I was extremely wrong.

He had wanted to use frustration education before, just to prevent Dalin from experiencing the hardships he had experienced in his youth, but as the years went by, he used it more and more harshly.

Now that I think about it, I received a frustration education.

Just because you have no power doesn't mean you should be looked down upon. What does this have to do with frustration education? People grow up through experiences, not by being beaten.

At most, being beaten can help children improve their business skills.

But apart from business, he also educates the child harshly, which means he really doesn't treat the child as a human being.

Now he understood, he knew what to do, and he felt enlightened.

But after the enlightenment, it is extremely painful.

Because I suddenly understood everything, but what's the use? It's too late.

There is no way Dalin will come back. It's all his own fault.

Only the youngest son is left.

But after a few days, the younger son had changed a little and began to hate him, otherwise he would not have broken down and said such words.

He has no idea about taking over in the future. On the contrary, his attitude is that he would never take over even if he dies.

There's something inexplicably ironic about it.

"..."

As he took a breath, Guo Degang felt his body trembling. He had no idea what he had accomplished in his entire life.

At the same time, on the other side, Yu Qian went back to his apprentice's house.

He comes back.

Guo Qilin was quite curious and came back quickly, in just over an hour.

"Master, is the matter resolved?"

"There's no need to solve it. At most I can go over and give some advice. He He, have you finished your homework?"

"No, I want to play. I wonder how she will finish her homework tomorrow. She has to go to school after the Lantern Festival tomorrow."

"It's okay, I'll go and supervise."

The afternoon passed.

Yu Qian was living a good life. In addition to supervising the little girl to do her homework, he also came to cook delicious food for their family.

As a retired man, he doesn't ask for anything else but for them to be happy eating the food he cooks.

"Grandpa, how long will it take for us to eat roasted whole lamb?"

During dinner time, He He said something whimsically, his eyes wide open.

"I haven't eaten yet, but I'm thinking about roasting a whole lamb." Guo Qilin pinched her face as she was eating, and continued, "You're not obedient at all. I'm giving you food, and you haven't even finished your homework."

"I will finish my homework."

Yu Qian smiled and said, "Let's wait until the holiday comes. Let's kill a sheep ourselves. We haven't done that in a while."

“Eat lots of meat.”

"Well, I'll give it all to you. There's also mutton offal. I'll ask your father to make mutton offal soup later."

"Just treat me as you please."

Every minute spent together as a family is comfortable.

By the next day, Guo Qilin was quite busy.

The company's opening day.

I held a meeting with a group of people in the morning.

Not only did he talk to Huilin Society, he also talked to his own record company. His album is about to be released, and it is the peak period for promotion.

Busy until the afternoon.

He was invited to attend the Lantern Festival Gala in Yangtai.

to the place.

Most of the celebrities inside are known and familiar.

For example, Shengteng, Jin Chen, Han Lei, Jia Bing, Jin Fei, Chen Xi, Zhang Guoli, Cai Min and others.

He has good popularity in the film and television, singing and crosstalk industries.

Even if the others don’t have much interaction in normal times, they can still talk when they meet, such as Phoenix Legend, Huang Qishan and others, because they are all familiar figures.

"Dalin, you came here alone this time to sing? Not to perform crosstalk?"

After the rehearsal of the Lantern Festival Gala, Jin Chen, Jia Bing, Jin Fei, Chen Xi and Dalin sat together and chatted.

"I can only sing. I can't do stand-up comedy."

"Hey~ crosstalk is so great. If we do a group crosstalk, the effect will be great." Jin Feichenxi felt a little regretful.

But Jin Chen has different ideas. She prefers Dalin's singing. Dalin has so many famous songs.

Among them, he has a song called "Light Chaser" which he rarely sings, but it is her favorite.

As for Jia Bing, he became popular again because of Dalin's TV series. He came over to talk because he wanted to think of him. Dalin is not only a singer and actor, but also a famous director.

Chatted for a while.

It’s almost time for the Lantern Festival Gala and everyone is busy.

Like Guo Qilin, he started doing some interviews and putting on makeup.

His show today is the fifth one scheduled, which is relatively early, so he can go home around nine o'clock after the performance.

The song sung was "Suddenly".

At first, the evening party program team did not consider this song, and only agreed to it after Guo Qilin took the initiative to propose it.

Now his status and strength are becoming more and more powerful, even the Yangtai Lantern Festival program team will listen to his suggestions more.

So tonight he got to sing a song composed by his sister, which was a rare opportunity for him.

But Deng Yiling didn't know that at the moment she was watching the live broadcast of the Lantern Festival Gala with her sister.

As I looked at it, I couldn't help but glance at He He's room. Nothing else, she was still busy with her homework on the last day.

It's like this during the summer vacation and the winter vacation. I can't change my personality no matter what.