Phi-Fic Chapter 957 He was convinced.
Chapter 957 He was convinced.
Lu Qingye was speechless for a moment, then gave Meng Wantang a thumbs up with a look of emotion.
"You are still the best. I didn't expect you to understand the minds of these two children so well."
Meng Wantang listened to Lu Qingye's praise with an expressionless face, without any fluctuation in her heart.
This is all because she saw it in a video when she was watching a short video.
Many women raise their children by themselves after getting married, and will post some videos related to their children on short videos.
There will be many scenes with children in it.
Meng Wantang also saw it by accident at that time.
She looked at a little girl who was very pretty. She didn't look like a real child at all, but more like a fake doll.
Meng Wantang couldn't resist the temptation of beauty, so she stopped and kept watching the short video of the child.
As a result, the child's mother began to complain about how bad the child's temper was.
The child has become a little internet celebrity and has already started making money for his family even though he can't speak yet.
The people in their family thought that the little girl was the little god of wealth in the family, so everyone coaxed the child.
I was almost subconsciously nice to this child and wanted to give all the good things to this little girl.
The things that were revealed inadvertently, as well as the love that came from the heart, made the little girl's consciousness expand greatly.
One day, the little girl's mother discovered that the little girl would spit out food she didn't like, and throw away any food she didn't finish.
She wouldn't let anyone eat it. She would throw the food on the ground and stomp on it a few times until it was broken into pieces and no one could eat it. Only then was she satisfied.
The child's mother thought this was a very bad habit, so she began to scold her daughter.
As a result, everyone in the family went against her.
I think she is making too much of a fuss. The child is just a child and doesn't understand anything.
Her lover even told her directly: "The child just doesn't like to eat oranges, so she threw the oranges on the ground and stepped on them twice. What's wrong with that? She is still a child and she doesn't understand anything."
"So what if she's small? Can you just throw away the orange if you don't like it?"
The woman calmly reasoned with her husband, but when her husband heard this, his face instantly darkened.
He was particularly serious in criticizing women.
"It's just an orange. It's not like our family can't afford it. If the child doesn't like to eat it, let her step on it for fun. Even if she wants to step on a whole box, I can afford it."
The man's arrogant tone and suffocating values made the woman feel very powerless.
She seemed to see her own daughter, who when she grew up became a bad child who wasted food, was selfish, disobedient, and unfilial to her parents.
It is obvious that the child is inherently good, but because he has not been properly guided, his three views have become problematic.
They started wasting food, but the adults in the family thought that the children were young and didn’t think there was anything wrong.
As the child grows up, this bad habit is formed and cannot be changed.
Even when the child grows up, the family members will think that it’s just a matter of not eating an orange and just throwing it away, it’s no big deal.
She doesn't like to eat this orange, so why can't she give it to her dad or mom?
Is it because mom and dad are not worthy of eating this orange?
The woman had a very serious and friendly communication with her husband. Although the process was not pleasant, she finally reached an agreement with her husband through her unremitting efforts.
Meng Wantang remembered the woman in the video saying, "I don't ask my daughter to be rich, nor do I ask my daughter to grow up to be outstanding. I just hope that my daughter will be healthy, happy, have a positive outlook on life, and will not waste food."
She hopes her daughter will be happy all her life.
My husband's wish is also very beautiful.
He hopes that his daughter can marry an honest, reliable and very capable husband, and that the family can live in harmony.
The couple's starting point is the same, both are for the good of their daughter.
There had been a quarrel between them.
But the final results are good.
After Meng Wantang thought of the video, she calmly reasoned with Lu Qingye.
"I know that our family is well off now. Let alone skipping meals, we waste all the meals every day. It's not that we can't afford the money, nor that we can't afford to waste it. But why is there a saying that goes 'remember the bitter past and think of the sweet present'?"
Lu Qingye listened quietly to what Meng Wantang said to him in a very calm tone.
"In the past, Yunhe and his friends didn't have enough food to eat when they were young. They were hungry and didn't even have good clothes. But the children didn't grow up astray because of this. Later, when the family conditions improved, I tried my best to meet all their needs and bring them the best. But my son has a positive outlook and didn't go astray."
Meng Wantang was once very afraid that her children would repeat the same path as in their previous life.
It's not that they won't go bad.
Instead, someone pulled them back on their path of growth.
In this way, they have transformed from uneducated hooligans into talents that are useful to society.
"I'm not saying that Huanhuan and Lele are inherently bad. Because they are still very young, they will learn some bad habits from adults. There are many actions and habits that we may do inadvertently. But in the eyes of the two children, it is different. They don't even know what is right and what is wrong. They just foolishly follow the adults."
Lu Qingye nodded: "I agree with this, because there is a saying that goes, teaching by example. Many of the habits of children are subconscious, and they learn from adults unconsciously."
"Yes, that's how children are. So we can't just ignore the mistakes they make because they are young. Because even if we correct them once, twice, or three times, they won't change. They don't understand why we say that. It takes us a long time to correct this small habit. If we don't correct it now, it will only cause more trouble in the future."
Meng Wantang was so calm that she even thought about her two children's meals while she was talking.
Lu Qingye also took another spoon and joined in feeding.
The two little girls were very perceptive. Maybe they saw their mother was very angry, so they cooperated quite well. Even if Lu Qingye fed her, Lele didn't like to eat very much, but she still opened her mouth obediently.
Lu Qingye raised his eyebrows and gave his wife a thumbs up.
"You are really amazing. You are definitely an expert in taking care of and raising children."
Meng Wantang was flattered by this man and rolled her eyes at him: "What are you doing? It seems that the person who just went against me was not you. I found that I am not popular with you now that I have a daughter, right?"
Lu Qingye begged for mercy: "You will always be number one in my eyes, and you will always be unique. The children will never be able to compare with you."
"You said that, but you didn't mean it. Everyone knows that a wife is an outsider. After all, I don't have the same last name as you, but the children have your last name and are your blood. If anything goes wrong between us, or if I make an unforgivable mistake, you will need to separate from me. At that time, even if I want to take the children away, you will not agree, and you will never forgive me."
Lu Qingye hurriedly shook his head and said, "That's impossible. How could I not forgive you? I will definitely forgive you, no matter what mistakes you made."
"What if I develop feelings for someone else and insist on divorcing you? And then that person cheats on me again, and I come back to you, are you willing to forgive me for this?"
Meng Wantang originally wanted to say something else, but changed her mind after hearing what Lu Qingye said.
Lu Qingye looked at her deeply, and then said, "Have I never forgiven you?"
Oh my God, why did this man seem to understand what she meant?
Meng Wantang's eyebrows jumped and she shook her head obediently.
The person who did something wrong was the original owner, not her. Why should she take the blame for the original owner?
Meng Wantang thought about how all the things the original owner had done were covered up. Actually, it couldn't be said that they were covered up, because the man in front of her didn't pursue them at all.
Meng Wantang didn't know whether this man wanted to make do with her life or whether she had really forgiven him.
Please forgive her for feeling a little guilty now. She cannot compromise with the man in front of her, nor can she ask questions about the doubts in her heart.
Sometimes she even thought that it would be nice if the days just passed by in a muddle.
But when she thought about these things in her dreams at midnight, she still wanted to get to the bottom of it.
She wanted to know whether the man liked her or the original owner?
This is something that is simply difficult to unravel.
Maybe one day, when she is about to die, she will have the courage to ask.
"I'll go pick up the little fatty from school a little later. The holiday is coming soon. After this holiday, we have to go back to school for exams in two days. Then it will be winter vacation, and then the Chinese New Year. You can stay at home after the Chinese New Year before leaving. Do you want to tell your boss to wait until after the 15th before leaving?"
Meng Wantang naturally changed the subject.
Lu Qingye's eyes flickered and he didn't continue the previous topic, but continued talking along the lines of what she said.
"Then I'll go with you to pick up the child. The child will be very happy to see me back."
Meng Wantang nodded and said, "He has been in school for such a long time. There have been parent-teacher conferences and other activities in school, and I went every time. Other classmates also asked why his father didn't come."
Lu Qingye said with some self-blame: "This is all my fault."